Now who is your ideal partner, you may ask? Despite knowing that relationships aren’t a perfect fairy tale, your ideal partner is a person who checks the majority of the boxes on your relationship manifestation list, who is a good match for you, and who you share the same values with
As you may have noticed, I’ve avoided using the terms “soulmate” or “twin flame” because there is a lot of controversy and confusion with those terms. I’ve also noticed that a lot of people get carried away with this idea of a “soulmate” or “twin flame” and lose track of who they are, who their partner is, and what kind of relationship is best for them. But instead here, we will be focusing on the idea of the “ideal partner” for you!
So you might be thinking “What exactly is an ideal partner?”. So with the knowledge that we are in fact perfectly imperfect, we have to bear in mind that perfection in a relationship is completely impossible and fictional, as relationships take a lot of TLC, compromise and work to stay alive. But I do believe we do in fact have the power to energetically manifest a person with the majority of the qualities we desire in a partner. Essentially finding someone who is imperfectly the perfect person for you
Have you figured out what qualities you want in an ideal partner? Have you ever written a manifestation list?
So step number one in finding an ideal partner involves figuring out what qualities you want and don’t want in a partner and this step can only really be figured out through dating and sort of a sense of trial and error. This step also includes really knowing who you are, having a deep sense of self-love, self-acceptance, and self-appreciation, and acknowledging your strengths and weaknesses, which will attract the right kinds of relationships your way. Once you are aware of some of these qualities you are looking for in a partner, you can actually write a manifestation list and add to it and remove from it as you realize more about yourself and the kind of relationship you are looking for which could also change over time. The most important thing about this list is being honest with yourself about what you’re looking for and being as specific as possible.
Before I connected with my partner, I myself wrote a checklist of things I was looking for in a partner. Some examples from my list were: someone I find attractive, someone who is physically active, someone who wants a monogamous relationship, someone who is my best friend, someone who understands me or at least wants/tries to, etc. I am grateful to honestly say that my partner has basically everything I wrote down on my list: So trust me, this works!
How do you know that they are in fact your ideal partner?
Your ideal partner gives you the appreciation, love, connection, and support that you’ve always been looking for. They highlight your strengths and point out your weaknesses and love you for them anyways and you do the same for them. You support each other’s growth and healing and are there with them through thick and thin. It is no fairy tale because it requires a lot of work on yourself, on yourself, and compromise to keep the candle burning. Love itself isn’t the thing that holds a relationship together
Are you looking to manifest a partner? Does your relationship need some assistance? Do you want to know if you’re with the right person?
Let’s work together! I work with both individuals and couples for psychotherapy and spiritual transformation coaching. I look forward to helping you find your ideal partner or help mend the problems in your existing relationship!